She must be seeing a lawyer...what now?

[Awoken]

Another note. I purchased some valentine's day cards for my kids. They were large, with lots of room to write inside. I wrote both of them pretty long letters inside.

I told them in detail what it meant to me to be a father.
I told them I told them how unique and special they each are.
I told them I knew how hard the last 3+ months had been.
I told them that no matter what happens, I will ok, and we will be ok. I will always be there for them.

I took them to dinnner to their favorite restaurant tonight, and surprised them with the cards, some cheesy target brand chocolates, and a small valentines gift for each of them. We've always done small gifts at valentines day, but I think we all sensed this was special.

They were both very touched by the cards, but of course showed it in different ways. D17 teared up and gave me a big hug. I think she looked a little relieved. Maybe that's just my hope.
S13 grunted a simple thanks, and diverted his attention to the box of chocolates. However, after dinner at blockbuster, S13 pulled me aside and said "dad, you know I don't like to talk about feelings at all, but thanks for the card."

It was a good night I think.