Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[Awoken]

I would suggest trying to be "too busy" to give him that. "Oh, I'd like to see your apartment, but I have lots of plans this week. Maybe another time".

There it is. It's not cowardly for you to be too busy.

"I'd like to hear more about that later, but someone's expecting my call this minute so I'd better go".

Even better.

JG, I hope you can step back and see how strong you are. You're dealing with all this, you're hanging in there. You in my thoughts in prayers. Keep your focus on you.