Thank you very much. This has been so hard so when I found this forum and read the posts, I really felt that I could be honest and share my situation with so many who understand.

My WAH behavior worries me because he doesn't seem to understand the magnitude of his decision to say -I just want a divorce and offer no reasons why. His behavior is immature, but he tells me I am being a teenager. He has been more verbally insulting over this last year than ever in our relationship, so I knew that there was an issue. I hope he makes it through this process. He has said that he does not know what the next ten years (after turning 50) will be like. I guess I need to fester the strength to allow him space ( which he has since he is not home). But it is HARD! Thank you for your post!


OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty
Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."