Might sound silly, but were your great ideas things with him or by yourself?
I wanted to do stuff with the kids but also go to a yoga class by myself. I would prefer to not see H on Vday, and I'm trying to think of an excuse to ask him not to come that night (for the bedtime routine).
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
