You know what, I am to the point where I can't stand to see H's stuff, I put it away, out of sight. I did this early on and it did wonders for my daily outlook. I then made the place more "mine". I just wonder if you try imagining what it would look like when all his stuff is gone, will you still want to be there? When his stuff is gone or packed away in garage, basement, whatever, it can be replaced with newer, "happier" stuff, no? Maybe so but if you were to get house won't he be clearing all his stuff out?
I don't know if this is helpful but you have my support going through this. I don't know if I'm being helpful either since I don't know your entire sitch or house issues. Am trying, though. And your GALing is awesome! I need to follow your lead there. 6:15 p.m. - time to leave work!! I'll check back soon (((Aver))))
Peace,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
