Hey Pearl, I know.. and I'm keeping them seperate. Just because I feel bad dosen't mean I won't do it - I just feel bad about it. It WAS his choice to leave and Divorce has serious consequences. I HAVE to take care of myself first - I can't worry about him. I KNOW that. There is no winner in this - we both struggle for the next few years - we just struggle without eachother.
It just sucks!
Lea, I was catching up on you sitch today - hang in there girl!! You are kicking butt. I won't take more than what's fair - I'm not the vindictive type and frankly, I would never stoop to his level. I work two jobs to make it work - he will have to as well. I'll drop by your sitch and leave my 2cents sometime.
Thank goodness I don't have kids right now...
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