He came for 15 minutes. I was pleasant and cheery and VERY busy when he came.

He said he had to leave because he had to run his older girls around. He then asked if he could come tomorrow. Thankfully we are very busy tomorrow. I told him that Tuesdays and Thursdays are very busy for us because I don't plan anything MWF because those are his days and that is important.

Its not my problem that he cannot tell his other kids no or wait a few minutes I am with baby for a bit. Why is it that baby's time comes second to his other kids and their schedules yet I am supposed to drop everything for that?

Not happening. He could make the other days that he doesn't have his other kids.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!