Plus, it's like she's having an A with you. Which probably gives her a much needed bright spot in her life right now.
There is still loving boundary setting though. But since you have said you would be flexible about this weekend, it's important to act consistent with your words.
In the future, you can be a little more like "you can come stay with me / go to an event with me but I can't come up" if you think being a little less available would be a good strategy.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
