How can I just move back in if she won't allow me too? She has changed the locks on me. She won't even allow me to go over there to collect my mail. Heck she has even taken me off of the checking account. Can I force her to give me a key to our apt?
She won't allow you??? She is your wife, not your mom.
If your name is on the lease, you can probably have the police compel her to let you in. If your name is on the lease, the landlord would probably let you in if you simply tell him you lost your key can he let you in please.
IF she wants to play hardball with living arrangements and money, cool, let her file for separation and you petition for support. Wives do it all the time. Husbands can too.
Takes a while to get the hang of this stuff. I promise, in 6 to 12 months you look back and marvel at how scared and powerless you seemed at this moment. BUT mark my words, get with the program and you will get your balls back. And they will feel good, once you got 'em
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
