LOL rr22 - LR - I like your five point list, easier said than done though! I think I've gotten to number 2 only - working on the rest and how in the world do you think all those fabulous, heartfelt special handmade things aren't going to cut the mustard? That is amazing! I would fall to the ground and kiss your feet if I were him.
I'm not giving H anything and I'm not saying anything.I'm pretty sure if he does anything for me, and that is a huge IF, it's out of duty, not emotions. I appreciate duty, but I'd prefer heartfelt feelings. Since that's probably out, I'm going to just treat it like another consumer holiday.