Lost -hang in there. My H left 7 months ago and I thought he would be home by now. I am also a fix it person and need to fix things now, however you do have to be patient. I am sure that if I had been more patient and not so accessible (I responded to every text, phone call, email etc almost immediately) he may have had a chance to miss me. Now he just thinks I am being a b..... when I ignore him.
Keep yourself busy, read, run, walk, clean , cook - do whatever it takes to take your mind off H unti you feel strong enough to talk without emotion.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived