I'll re-read your last post b/c it was confusing and I didn't see anythine manipulative or weird in what she JUST wrote.
I DO think the unwillingness to drive 30 min, AND to bring a 3rd party to observe the drop off was very odd. Why would she do that, according to HER? Meaning, what reason, rational or not, does SHE give for such distrustful behavior?
Pick your battles well. Not everything is worth fighting about. But again, I'm missing something here. What's the big deal in the drop off time? And why are YOU the only one driving? I could see it if you had decided to leave your family and move away and that you'd be stuck paying the cost of flights, etc. but you moved pursuant to her request and it's only 30 min away and isn't what's best for the boys, the test?
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