Are regrets when you end a separation normal?

[Onthemountaintop]

Go ask her today- ask her to gently tell her why she finds you disrespectful.

I'll try that.

I asked her. She said in order:
- She was now worse than me, that she disrespects but I don't anymore
- I treat her like a child
- She feels I tell her what to do too much
- Give her dirty looks when I'm upset in the store
- I am doing this much less since IC (Feb/09)