Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[lostnotgone]

Right there with you - H moved out a month and 1/2 ago to his mothers and just moved into his own place this weekend!! I have not seen the place yet. In a way I want to and a way I don't..
Seems like he has been gone SO LONG!

Keep focus on the kids - it helps! I also have told myself that OW is NOTHING! this is helping some - these OP have issues of their own if they are involved with Married people! I believe bigger issues then me.

Hang in there and keep reading... if you have not read the DBing books get them - I have 2 and just ordered another! Keeps me thinking positive. Ask for advise here... I have stopped asking for advise from friends and family - If they ask how things are I just tell them I am OK.