I'm so glad you kept your distance from her! I disagree that she is trying. She left you! And she wants to come back and cake eat and be on the fence just like she was before. Sorry to be blunt here, but I am so proud of you for sticking to your boundaries. That's gotta be hard. I think if a WAS wants sex, texts, dates, etc, they should clearly commit!!! My H and I are working on our M, but holding off on all that other stuff until or if we fully commit to reconsiliation. As long as he is on the fence, it would just wound me to let him come and go as he pleased just because I'm hurting.
You ARE being a man! You are keeping your dignity now that she has walked away. Keep it up. She needs to get the ramifications of her walk away actions.
You're my idol this week. I need more boundaries like this. Although we have no romance, I do let him treat me however he wants out of hope he'll return. BAd me. Good you.
