Jack - as usual thanks man! The biggest struggle that i have right now is trying to not come accross as if it is "over" and that I have moved on. Since a do acknowledge a fair amount of the issues in our M I find myself walking a little on egg shells. Always thinking...."what is she going to think"...the reality is that I need to just say F* it and do what I know to be just, right and good for Me and my KIDS. Everything else should be secondary, since I have no idea when and if she will ever come out of this. When I consider this perspective/approach, I struggle with thinking if I should stick with this or just file for LS in an effort to protect myself and my kids. But then again...I am doing this for my kids so I need to stick this out. By the way Jack - not sure if you are a Creed fan but check out the song "Time" on thier new album - my favorite.

OP - read thru your scripts - will continue to try and detach but man this is not for the soft at heart. I mean I'm living with someone who shows no emotion or provides any intamacy.

Keep the inspiration coming everyone - trust me I need it.


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans