Thank you rr22, I have to agree with that. My H, and probably I too, is really difficult to talk to at night. You're right it was good that he noticed this.
We have gotten sucked into late night talks in the past because that was often the "only" time we had to talk. But now that we have MC, at least I know there will always be a time to talk.
And once H gets more comitted to me, I would like to schedule a regular time to talk with him on our own - but we're not there yet. Being able to talk at all is still something we are working on.
By the way, I hate valentine's day this year. Just had to get that out.
