Yup - have a good vibe about things today - despite fact that tomorrow will be the worst day of my life, and no matter how hard I try - I will be feeling terrible at the lawyers office - I will win an Oscar if I can mask my disappointment. Will try like hell to keep it business like and not to appear too distraught. Question I am curious to throw out there - when I am out in an apartment in a week or so, how should I balance being back at the house with my daughters and keeping distance from W - good possibility I will be there every day to see my daughters - guess just remain somewhat aloof from W - find other activities with daughters outside house (hard right now), maybe reserve some nights, etc for my activities - one night for my support group as it is right now.
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010