flowmom,
I am in IC, and she does help with my self esteem. However, I do feel like I need to find a different one. She is not very supportive of trying to work on my M after I found out about the A. She wants me to move on, and tells me that it's almost impossible to have a happy M after an A. Luckly, for me, I don't agree with her at all on that one. I know way to many couples that have come back from A and have a very happy M.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10