ON a positive note he IS taking readings.

By taking readings I mean he is focussing on your feelings, your moods, your needs.

Walkaway spouses dont' do that... They are in full Out the door Mode... this guy wants to come back.

MB28 you just need to apply MORE PRESSURE.

Even a few rages and quick exits would work well.

You must have built up hurt and pain.

Wait one time when he's there and he acts casual and asks how your day went just

Look at him for a few seconds...

Let rip the hurt and pain in one HUGE BURST

YOU : YOUR AFFAIR IS KILLING ME!!!

Then you RUN OUT... don't even take a darn coat... run into the street, get in your car and DRIVE...

A few of those can really get the message across. I am sure this is how you feel anyhow. I am not suggesting you FAKE upset... I really don't think you need to. It is IMPERATIVE that you show TEARS and not ANGER... and that you aren't blaming him.. blame the OW and the affair.

Last edited by Allen A; 02/10/10 06:32 PM.