Actually, yes, I have reconsidered the AOS Card idea, it might be a lot more special if I simply make Sunday "Her Day", and seek to do everything for her, all day. At least to the best of my ability. On Sundays, she usually makes something like pancakes, waffles, etc. for breakfast, on V-day it's likely that she'll get croissants or something instead. I'll suggest it just to make sure. Then for the rest of the day, I'll be in charge of cleaning up, making supper, cleaning up, etc. Plus a nice Valentines card. All of that together probably adds up to a good baby-step that doesn't go off the deep end into unbelievability, and doesn't demand anything in return. And then, of course, continuing with my commitment to look for ways to make her feel loved by doing things for her, again with no expectation other than to make her feel loved.
