mb, if you are worried about ignoring his texts as coming across as playing games, you can always say "I am only comfortable speaking with you concerning kids or finances. I know you will understand. " and then ignore the silly ones.
I do text my WH ONLY in response to S...but that is all he texts me about anyway!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004