Thank you grr. I have been reading many different posts on here and have been trying to piece together the best plan based on the circumstances. I'm happy to hear that you and your H are back on track.

Thank you too Wired for your reply and sharing that with me. I have been going to IC but have not shared all of my thoughts. I know what I have been thinking is the chicken way out, but after all that she and I have shared and done, the plans we have made, the thought of her being with someone else/her having a family with someone else/us leading separate lives from now on...

On top of all of this I see that I have caused her a lot of pain and I feel like I let her/us down.


Me-32
W-29
No kids
ILYBNILWY 11.20.09
Separated 01.10.10
Discovered EA 01.13.10
W admitted to PA 02.21.10
I filed for D 03.09.10