Thanks for posting your "inventory of sins." It totally ripped me open--yup, that's me, that's me, that's me.
And the grief of "if only I had a chance to try."
Well, it is good knowledge for the next R, right?
(((avermont))) remember that Maya Angelou says "When you know better, you do better."
Actually, I think it's good knowledge for a single gal too. Underlying each one of those sins is a belief that I have, a belief which has not served me. A lot of those beliefs are arrogant and controlling in nature. I can start to challenge those beliefs now.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.