About 3 yrs ago, my H decided he wanted a D and that was that. I DB'd and, never figured out why exactly, but he decided to stay.
Fast forward to now. About 2 wks ago, H started acting weird. My gut is usually correct, and it's telling me something is going on. On the surface, H is acting like a normal, loving H, but something is going on and I just don't know what it is.
I am thinking OW, but I can find no proof of that & I have snooped a bit.
I am just db'ing now & patiently waiting to see what happens. I just have no clue what is going on -- is he starting an MLC? is there OW? is he just going through "something" and he will work through it and I just have to hang tough?
I have been making sure that I look good and the house is clean, laundry done, kitchen clean, dinner cooked etc.
This is just driving me crazy. I swear sometimes I am going crazy, but I know I'm not. Something is going on, but I just can't figure it out.
Help!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
do you use limewire or utorrent to download music? Do you know how to do that? If so, seach limewire or torrent site for applications and search keylogger. Download it and then download program to comp.
We have separate lap tops. Won't he know that I did this?
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Before you do anything, make sure you are ready to know, that you really want to know. And know what your plan is, in either case. The last thing you want to do is react to what you might find without thinking it through first.
