Time to be a strong, confident woman who always does the right thing. Remember courage is when people are afraid to do something and they do it anyway.
Tell him what you know, he deserves it, no more excuses, you saw it with your own eyes.
You will get the venom, the threats and the anger. But eventually you will get your husbands respect for fighting for your marriage. This will speed up the process of reconcilliation not slow it down, expose the affair and it will die.
