Hi flowmom-

I'm trying hard to catch up on threads.

Thanks for posting your "inventory of sins." It totally ripped me open--yup, that's me, that's me, that's me.

And the grief of "if only I had a chance to try."

Well, it is good knowledge for the next R, right?

It sounds like your IC is better than mine--as soon as I get a chance, I will post about her and get people's advice re: possibly changing.


Thinking lots about you--

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process