Welcome CHL! I'd add more but I am nursing a horrible cold and might contaminate the thread. I seem to be the last casualty in the family, so as long as the dog and cats don't catch it it should blow over in a couple more days.
BTW, is blackmail effective then? Because my H already clearly stated that I should not dream of his posting here (even though he does not seem to mind that I do).
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"