Then my worst fear comes out: my son calling another man "dad". What ridiculous speculation! I know, there's nothing I can do about this, and I just need to move on and work on myself.
Sorry, I'm a little behind on everyone's sitch from being home with S1 but I know exactly what you mean about your worst fear....as I know you know in my sitch with an obvious OW weaved into my life this is a very real fear for me too. I have to admit that early on in my H's admission I thought about simply "checking out" of this life. (Those thoughts only lasted about 2 days)
Anyway, my point is this, we don't ever know where the road will lead and I absolutely believe in karma. What comes around goes around so IF their is an OM well then let's just wait and see but I'd bet my last dollar that your son will NEVER call anyone dad but you. Dad is so much more than just a place a man holds in a house....it is the everyday love and closeness and bonding that happens everyday with your kids. Believe me I know, I had an incredible dad who I believe is my guardian angel these days.
Just sayin' -JG
M-44 H-44 D9 S1 M-17 T-20 Bomb-8/09 EA/PA/MLC H moved out 2/4/10
It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.-Roy Disney
