She wanted to know what was wrong with D13, I paused and told her that I did not want to talk about it, she knew what the problem was and it was my way of letting her know that I blame her for what is going on with both the kids.
Nothing wrong with not wanting to discuss that with her, it wouldn't do any good right now.
Don't take this the wrong way, by no means am I saying that you should shield her from the consequences of her choices. Just be careful with having the mindset of "letting her know she is to blame." I can't see how that would draw her any closer. More than likley it will only cause her build up that "force field" even stronger.
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I can't imagine the pain she is in, she started to cry over the phone but kept it together.
No you probably can't. Again...all the more reason not to add to it. You trying to show her will drive her further away.
