Robx knows what he is talking about. I strongly recommend following his advise TODAY!
Some say it is better to wait, I want to tell you that it is better to act now. Every day that goes by while you continue to tolerate irresponsible behavior from your W, the higher the costs will be.
Did you read any of Britt54's thread? Look at the manes she thanked. These are wise people that know what works.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712