NEVER DO EXPOSURE ANONYMOUSLY. Your husband is going to find out it was you anyway (or will SUSPECT it was you), so you're going to get all the venom and blowback that comes from taking ownership for it ANYWAY. Only you won't get the credit for at least taking a principled stand.
You're dithering on this whole exposure thing, MB. If you're going to do it, DO IT, and please do it the right way. Pardon my french, but this is chickenchit.
