Ok, this is embarrassing. Here is what I had planned on putting in the letter. My H & the OW suspect I'm getting my information from people that work with OW. So I made the letter out as if I was one of those people.

I am sorry to have to give you this disturbing news. I have seen your wife, Tamryn being picked up from work by another man for awhile now. Sometimes during her dinner break and sometimes after work and others have also seen them together and what they are doing is wrong.

It took me awhile to track the man’s name down, but I finally have. MY H NAME, I don’t want to risk finding out his cell phone number. But I can tell you he drives a white chevy truck with a tool box in the back, and it’s a duel cab. I found out that he is also married, and was able to track his wife down and I have already informed her of their affair. I’m not sure if she has confronted her husband or not. When I contacted her, I was able to tell her where she could see them together. As far as that I don’t know if she has done anything.

I believe this type of behavior is wrong no matter what is happening in the marriage, and I pondered for awhile whether to inform you and the other mans wife. Finally, I realized that I could not sit back and do nothing. Therefore, I decided to contact both spouses, because I felt you both had a right to know.

Sorry I cannot give you my name or any other information that might identify me. I do not want to jeopardize my job.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10