Thank you everyone. I know what I have to do; it's doing it that is hard. I will figure this out one way or another.
Seen H last night for a few minutes, and he was very cold and short with me. No R talk, just kids and house issues. However, I remained very calm and upbeat and let his coldness roll off my back. This morning he texted me "Have a good day!", I didn't respond, and then he texted again "How was your class last night?" I responded with short "fine, just a long night". I just don't understand how he can be cold one day and then all sweet the next. I thought about this, and I think I've found a pattern to his behavior. When he see's or talks to her, he is mean to me. On the days he doesn't talk or see her, is when he is sweet.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
