Part of the reason I asked about where she would live last night was to get her thinking about what it would be like. And to let her know I am not afraid of being D'd. I don't want to be D'd, but that's not MY decision. I will handle whatever comes my way.
One other thing I did that I did not put in my post was after I was done, I said to her, "I've asked you questions. Do you have ANYTHING you want to ask me." She said no, which is what I thought she'd say, but I wanted to let her know, yet again, that I have nothing to hide. If she has a concern or question, I want it said that she can ask me.
Now you are leading. She's watching you very closely right now.
Hope you're right friend. Feels good to lead, but she doesn't seem to have any desire to do anything other than D.
