nd some of them will be WAY outside my comfort zone, such as "Plan and prepare an entire meal" (she will immediately recognize THAT one as being COMPLETELY out of character for me, as I NEVER cook).
Why not just do that for V day? I've never had much success with the coupon thing in the past. To me, it comes across as 'I'm not thoughtful enough to do something real - so you need to nag me to do it.' Ultimately actions mean a lot and words mean very little. Just my 2c though. She wants you to DO things for her - not talk about things you're going to do.
