OK, this is in the mind-reading my H category, which I am working on doing less. H posted this on his FB wall today:
Quote:
"Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. Security does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than exposure." - Helen Keller
That helps me to understand how he is framing this to himself...he is giving up the security of our M to pursue "adventure". Very in character.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
