What's the best way to let WAS know she has the option to stop this at anytime?
the best way IDK......
I said something like this, the best I remember.
"Since you filed for D, I now have a gun pointed at my head. So to protect myself I have hired a gun to protect myself. If you continue down this path I will fight it every step of the way to protect myself and keep my family intact. You can do whatever you want but I want to be clear that this is your decision to end our marriage and tear our family apart. Since you started the lawsuit then you have the ability to stop it at any time."
You have to say it with conviction and under control, then pull the hood up on the spew raincoat.
Coach, thanks for the input, as always.
I had this conversation with my W. Was the last conversation we have had since last night.
Part of the reason I asked about where she would live last night was to get her thinking about what it would be like. And to let her know I am not afraid of being D'd. I don't want to be D'd, but that's not MY decision. I will handle whatever comes my way.
One other thing I did that I did not put in my post was after I was done, I said to her, "I've asked you questions. Do you have ANYTHING you want to ask me." She said no, which is what I thought she'd say, but I wanted to let her know, yet again, that I have nothing to hide. If she has a concern or question, I want it said that she can ask me.
