My story, what to do next.

[digger22]

couple questions I hope you guys can help me figure out.
W does a lot of temperature checks with me. A couple of months ago I told her that we are in different places now and that if something changes with that we can let each other know. However, I still get the "how are you feeling about us?" question about once a week. Lately I have been saying that I did want this to work, but I can understand your point and I feel that D may be the best answer for us. any thoughts on a different approach or should I just stick with it.

Another thing that comes up often is her saying sorry for our sitch. My typical response is something like "I am not mad at you" or "you are just following your feelings". I wonder if I should probe her to get her to explain what exactly it is she is "sorry about"