di- You can no longer say that you are not a good DBer. That showed a lot of self-restraint not to bring up the psychologist. I don't know if I could have resisted that temptation. I'm sure you know it wouldn't have mattered if you had mentioned it because he will have to be the one to choose when he is ready to go and do the work.
Be proud of yourself and the way you are handling this. It shows that you are growing and getting stronger.
