About 3 yrs ago, my H decided he wanted a D and that was that. I DB'd and, never figured out why exactly, but he decided to stay.
Fast forward to now. About 2 wks ago, H started acting weird. My gut is usually correct, and it's telling me something is going on. On the surface, H is acting like a normal, loving H, but something is going on and I just don't know what it is.
I am thinking OW, but I can find no proof of that & I have snooped a bit.
I am just db'ing now & patiently waiting to see what happens. I just have no clue what is going on -- is he starting an MLC? is there OW? is he just going through "something" and he will work through it and I just have to hang tough?
I have been making sure that I look good and the house is clean, laundry done, kitchen clean, dinner cooked etc.
This is just driving me crazy. I swear sometimes I am going crazy, but I know I'm not. Something is going on, but I just can't figure it out.
Help!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
