Decided to post my positives for the day on both threads!!
Keeping up with two will keep me busier and give me less time to get myself into trouble maybe! Hope David posts to help keep me busy on this one as well.
Quote: Positives for today:
1. I got up in sort of down mood because I had done well all week and yesterday I bombed! Posted and had some of my friends here post pick me ups! Very nice to read. I then did pick my mood up!!!
2. Invited David over for nice mindless TV show and snuggle in blanket on couch. Got back a very nice refusal. Usually if I invite him over he just says not tonight. He said not tonight but not because it doesn't sound like fun, but because he is tired and sick still and planning to crash this evening. If he takes nap and feels better he may come over later. But don't expect him.
3. He has read the Question thread already and seen the welcomes to him and saying looks like he will need to post back to folks!!
4. Started getting back down this afternoon. There was big meeting at the office but the front was dead and slow. So I was bored. No BB action! David busy!! No one on IM!!!!!! AHHH.... No one for Pam to talk to. Told David was going to sign off of IM, he asked why, I said so don't get upset. He asked why would I do that. So I copied him my post on Fridays. What is so cool here is this is good communication for us! I didn't shut him out, he asked why upset and understood me!!! Yippee!!! He also chatted some after that and my mood came back up! I am so glad to be having this come back ups in my moods!
5. I am home and in a good mood!!!
6. David later in chatting suggested I tape tonight's show and we could watch together when he feels better!
Sage I am so glad you talked me into starting to post positives it really does help pick up the PMA!!!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"