I have not posted this on your thread yet. You said you read the resources but their are a few other gems here.


http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1539436

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I kind of feel like I am being stomped on.

You need to use this. Detachment will help you keep from getting stomped on.
This is the detach link:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

Why they run:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=67406&page=1

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...6668#Post526668

Now you have all the tools to read. Let us know how your doing and if you have any questions.

Remember that in the stages of MLC it does NOT go
1,2,3,4,5,6 but can get all mixed up and repeat itself and have more than one stage at once. Depression is the key to the whole thing and it is always present!
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why am I still married and why have I not filed
I assume that you want to stay married if you do not then by all means file!
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I guess I still hold out hope that she will "come around"
You need to lower your expectations to zero. "Hope" is not going to work here. You need to love from a distance.

This is why you need to GAL,look in the mirror to improve yourself. To keep yourself busy while your W is on her journey.

There are no quick answers in MLC land.


Me-70, D37,S36