I need to stay positive and control my resentment. I want to be a loving and understanding person. My kids respond so well to me when I keep that in mind. My mom does too. My two indicators of "good behaviour"... H needs time to accpet this is who I am. I am not who he is AFRAID I am... K
Maria, print this off and stick it where you will read it every day! Controlling one's resentment can be so hard to do but doing so can reap great rewards.
I can see many good things in your situation and it just seems a question of getting the scales to balance down so that the good things weigh more than the bad and so then you can start to be on an upwards spiral. That in turn will help your H get his mojo back gradually.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
