Same thing here- it's terrible. But I guess I would do the same thing. I currently distance myself from people suggesting divorce.
My W is friends w/ a D attorney, MIL is w/ her she's been widowed and D- terrible marriages, new OM is divorced, and the rest of her friends are pretty much single. Two of them are exceptions, both had troubled M's and worked it out.
But of course W doesn't wasnt to hear it from them- she's sold them all on how terrible I am and how unhappy she's been.
