I continue to think that we should not divorce, but I know that that is what you want. Hiring a lawyer is not an easy task-----even when given a list of names to choose from. It is also not a quick process. I have made contact with an attorney to represent me and my interests, but I will not file or initiate the process. We have not met. I have only provided the documents she requested to review. When she has had a chance to do that, I'm sure she will be ready to review the legal documents that your attorney prepares.
Now go back to NC and live your life. I agree with your previous post about your H not knowing what a D is going to look like. That is not in his mind, only thing in his mind is to get rid of the pain, and you represent the pain to him(even though that is far from the truth).
Take the extra time you get with your kids as a gift. I know that it is enabling your H but I agree with you that your kids should come first, they will recognize who was there for them. My kids do!
