Jack she seems to be reconnecting with the kids now, which is a good thing. The only one that she is not connecting with is me. I kind of feel like I am being stomped on. She contacts the OM on the cell phone like nothing. I am trying to GAL and detach but I find myself asking...then why am I still married and why have I not filed. I guess I still hold out hope that she will "come around" and I know that this is the "worst" part of the "for better or for worst" statement but this is really hard. Does anyone have any words of encouragement?


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans