Onwards and upwards!

[P17]

Well that got screwed up!

Had meeting with W. Lasted less then 5 minutes.

Her: You are looking really good.
Me: Thanks. You look good too.
Me: I brought you here so we could talk about the separation agreement. I'm wondering why you changed your mind about not wanting anything.
Her: I want just what I'm entitled to.
Me: You do know that if you force me to sell the house I will have to move away and me and D will be split up.
Her: There are other options.
Me: What other options.
Her: I don't know.
Me: If I offered you £5k which is what you paid in the mortgage would you be interested?
Her: No.
Me: Okay well there isn't anything more to discuss then. <I got up and put my jacket on>
Her: <shocked look>

Me: D asked me to give you this and tell you she misses you.
Me: You need to leave D and I alone from now on. No cards, letters, phone calls etc. Everytime you do she is reminded of what she has lost. She is upset by you leaving. When you spoke to her at Xmas you crossed the line.
Her: She sought me out as she was really upset.
Me: You need to be the adult in this. If she speaks to you tell her you are busy. But I am not going to tolerate you upsetting my little girl. You need to leave her alone.

I walked away.

So I didn't control anything. I was extremely nervous and that was obvious. She did nothing but be smug and smile.

I am extremely upset by her attitude towards me and her attitude towards D. She seems to think she SHOULD be having a relationship with D and that it's somehow my fault that she isn't being allowed to. She also gives me the impression that she is doing nothing more than punishing me by wanting half of the house.

Gloves come off. Waiting to hear from my solicitor. Probably just file for D and force the house issue.