Just read your story.. so excited for your next steps!
How are your friends and family with your decision to move back out? Mine are really pushing me hard to cut the ties and move on with my life. Love that you have pets too. H demanded that I get rid of the pets and the counselor we saw together suggested we put them in care for a bit to work on the relationship first. I was the stubborn one here. I've already been giving a lot...and what am I getting in return? I get rid of them and then a month later he will run again and I'll have a totally empty house! Plus, they've been keeping me sane. Even those days you just want to stay in bed, they force you to get up and out!
And she is licensed.. actually up for renewal in June this year. he says it was just flirting but if you saw the email (I should cut and paste it here at some point) it's pretty graphic so not sure it wasn't a PA too. Just afraid of reporting her at this point as that might be the act that shuts down h's willingness to even try to work on our relationship. Trying to set a deadline in my head for when if things aren't better than I can report it.
