Interesting evening, made my chocolates for my valentines gift and spent a few hours in the kitchen with my friend. Joined H in the lounge and he carried on using his laptop and once or twice when I included him in the conversation it was obvious he was concentrating on what he was doing rather than being part of our conversation. My S came home and immediately started teasing my friend as he knows her quite well and finally H joined in the conversation. A part of me found it quite hard as it was triggering old times of me feeling uncomfortable bringing friends home as he doesnt communicate with them and gives off this impression that he is very boring/bored when he isnt. I want my home to have people about and feeling comfortable not me feeling like I have to hide some where else in the house with them as usually I wont be doing something in the kitchen.

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!